Tip 4: Use your clothing as comfort and support.Ĭésar, 25, suggests using your clothing as pillows, so your head doesn't bang against the car door. That's why missionary position is ideal for car sex and certain positions-like reverse-cowgirl or the centrifugal clown spoon-are a no-go. You need to conserve space when boning in a car, and the best way to do this is through intimate, skin-to-skin sex. Is That Normal?Ĭar sex is like Tetris, only instead of digital blocks you have limbs, and the rows are cleared only once you and your partner orgasm. But that awkwardness is just one of the many pleasures of getting it on a sedan. Is it slightly awkward waiting as the front seats move up at a glacial pace? Why yes, yes it is. If you happen to be in a sex-negative car, which can’t pop the backseats down, at least move the driver's and passenger's seat up as far as they can go. The vast majority of cars made in the past two decades can fold the backseats down. Tip 2: Fold the backseats down and move the front seats up as far as possible. If you're adjusting, you may accidentally hold down the horn for a solid, three Mississippis. From that mortifying experience, we know we should not have sex in the driver's seat, since there is a likelihood of hitting the horn, and it might not be a tiny toot. For example, Glenn, 28, learned you shouldn't have sex in the front seat of a church parking lot because you may hit the horn, and the entire congregation will hear. Sometimes, knowing what not to do is as important as knowing what to do. (In my story I posed the question, "What’s the best way to have sex in a car?" My thirsty Instagram followers then sent me highly inappropriate and detailed descriptions of the many times they plowed in a sedan.) Now, I will bestow this coveted knowledge to you. So how do you embrace your inner DiCaprio and have fantastic car sex? I assembled tips not just from these sex experts and my own personal experience, but also from my Instagram followers. “Car sex has also been fantasized in a number of films and on TV, making the curiosity and desire for it higher,” Cobb says. Movies such as Titanic did wonders for spreading the car sex fantasy. “So, if that’s your space, mastering the location so that it works for you is important.”Īshley Cobb, a sexpert for Lovehoney adds, “Car sex can be arousing simply because it's fresh and different, but also because it adds an element of risk."Īnd, “that possibility of getting caught is what turns so many of us on,” adds polyamorous educator Tiana GlittersaurusRex. “Car sex is really important globally because a lot of people don’t have their own private space to have sex, so the car will be the obvious go-to,” says sex hacker Kenneth Play. It's for grown-ass men, women, and nonbinary babes, too. It turns out car sex isn't just for horny teens with no place to bone besides the back of a CVS parking lot. For reasons unclear, many of them don't appreciate the sound of my head repeatedly knocking against my bed frame. Then it turns out New York real estate is actually really expensive (who knew?), so I would have to live with many roommates-not in Manhattan, but in deep Brooklyn. Freshman year of college, I lived in a triple the size of a glorified shoebox.
I was young, foolish, and oh-so-very wrong. No longer would my 6'4'' Gumby-like frame need to fold down the backseats of my mom's Prius to awkwardly enter my girlfriend while one leg dangled in the passenger's seat. After I graduated, I figured I'd have a sick studio in the Lower East Side of Manhattan, and it would surely suffice. I thought I'd be able to bring a lover back to my "cool" college dorm room, littered with dreamcatchers and unframed posters of Bob Marley. When I kissed high school goodbye, I thought my days of car sex were finally behind me.